Meg, I really like the way you express yourself. But, here's my take: You're in your thirties? Wait until you're fifty, sixty, and yeah, seventy and then tell us, those of us who are still around, anyway, how you feel about the "grays and wobbly bits." I definitely think that we women get the short end of the stick when it comes to others assumptions about aging and I've written about it, extensively. That said, for me, and as I said before, to each his/her own, I prefer to look, and feel, as good as I can for as long as I can.