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Not-So-Wet Dreams
When our bodies put the damper on sex.
Disclaimer: Unlike some of the writers on Medium, I’m not a sexpert. I just know what I know. And that includes what feels good and what doesn't.
Alright, then. As we age, we women especially, have to watch, helplessly, as our bodies betray us at every turn. Some of the changes we can mitigate or at least fend them off for a few more years. With others, that’s not the case.
There’s one change I’m thinking of in particular that’s a real ball-buster. Pun intended. And that is the one taking place between our thighs.
It’s called “a diminished or complete lack of lubrication.”
Ouch!
Yes, our vaginas, along with the rest of us, are getting older, too. Damn! Is nothing sacred?
Who wants to be thought of as an old pussy? I sure as hell don’t.
Naturally, every vagina is different. Each one has it’s own story to tell but here’s what never wavers: At some point, we ladies experience a drop in estrogen and that is when everything starts to go to shit.
Most women reach menopause, the dreaded “change,” after the age of fifty. But menopause actually kicks off when we’re in our forties.
