Oh, Tina! I witnessed this first-hand growing up, as my father would mentally and physically abuse my mother. And yes, alcohol was always involved. Once, when I tried to stick up for her, he threw a drink in my face, ice cubes and all. I loved him, but he made it difficult. And, she stayed.

I'm so happy you have forged a "better life" for yourself as you deserve it. And no, we never forget.